Many guys only want to penetrate rather than have a relationship — Tems

By Ayo Onikoyi

Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Tems has shared candid thoughts on modern relationships, saying many men approach women with intentions that are primarily sexual rather than emotional.

Speaking during an episode of Flow With Korty, the singer reflected on her experiences with love and dating when asked whether she had ever been in love.

According to Tems, many men make their intentions obvious from the outset.

“A lot of guys, they are very obvious. There is no agenda but to penetrate,” she said.

When she made the remark it sparked conversations on social media, with fans and commentators debating her assessment of contemporary dating and relationships.

Beyond discussing romance, Tems also opened up about her childhood experiences, revealing that she was often misunderstood because of her reserved personality. She recalled being bullied while growing up due to her quiet nature and the way she expressed herself.

The singer explained that people frequently questioned her manner of speaking and behaviour, experiences she said left her feeling isolated at times.

Tems added that music eventually became a source of comfort and self-expression, helping her navigate difficult moments and build confidence.

Known for her soulful sound and introspective songwriting, the singer has often drawn from personal experiences in her music, which has earned her a global following and critical acclaim.

Her latest comments have once again placed her personal reflections in the spotlight, generating widespread reactions among fans and followers online.

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